Cleaning after the kids go to bed and when the farmer is finally home is always seems to be my dilemma.
A. Do I clean so I don’t need to do it in the morning and spend less time with the farmer.
B. Do I not clean and spend more time with the farmer and just clean up in the morning.
I seem to go through this thought process practically every night. Mostly it depends on my my mood to what I end up choosing. More often then most I choose to spend the quality time with my farmer.
I choose the farmer because when having 2 kids under 2 we really don’t get much time with just the two of us anymore. This always seems to be the best time for the both of us to communicate. It’s our quality time as we don’t do a date night as the only places close to us is the pub or fuel station. So you can see why we choose to stay home.
However whenever I’m in a shitty mood I choose the cleaning so I can deal with myself and try and move on. It is always nice to wake up to a clean kitchen though.
In the mornings when I haven’t cleaned the kitchen we all clean it together as a family. Which is always nice and a good chore to start the day. Also a good fun way to show the kids how to clean and get them to help.
So I guess what I’m trying to say it’s okay to have a dirty kitchen to spend quality time with your man. If at night you only get an hour before bed spend it talking and being together and not stressing about the little things.
Until next time xx