Find your why…
Find your why…
When you find your why, you’ll fight, you’ll work as hard as you can to make it happen!
Find your why!
After having my babies I lost my why. I didn’t have a why. I felt like I didn’t really have a purpose. Which is such a silly thought. Until I decided to make a change in my mind.
I found my why!
It’s not the same why I had before because now I’m a different person. I’ve had new experiences which have made me into a better person, mother and wife.
I needed to find my why again for myself first so I could be a better person for my kids and for my husband. So life was just passing me by. I stopped thinking about all the what if’s, why me and just silly problems that I couldn’t change in my life.
Once I started changing my mind set and really looked at the beautiful life around me. I could start to see all the blessings and not the shit I couldn’t change. I could see that I’ve been blessed with health, my amazing hands on husband and my beautiful feral kids. Every night I go to sleep and in the morning I’m still here, my family is here, happy, healthy and I could finally see my family is my why.
My why was, is and has always been my family. I want the greatest life for my family. I don’t want mediocre, I want the best life and no one can make that happen other than me.
I couldn’t see what was in front of me. My husband was telling everyday ‘Don’t worry about that shit think about the now and what we can do now’. My husband has always had his why and I just got lost along the way but thank gosh my husband kept pushing when I forgot what our why was. He had been pushing when had lost all my strength and now we are pushing forward together everyday!
Every failure is a success for us because we are working together. It’s always a step closer. Failure leads to success, there is no person on this planet who ever succeeded without failure. Failure and fear is one of the same. Anything worth doing is always going to be scary. We should all be running towards our fears, chasing them and kicking it in the arse!!
I know now we will be successful. I don’t know when it will happen but it will happen. I have my why and I know our goals. It’s going to be tough but it’s going to be worth it!
Surround yourself with positive people. That positive energy will bounce and push you forward. Listen to motivational speeches everyday. Read books to fill your mind. We should learning everyday. So full your mind with information!
Remember we all have a choice. I realise now that I most likely had postnatal depression. However I had good people around to help pick me up when I felt lonely and unworthy. So when I made that choice to make a change and find my why, my reason to live. It was like a weight lifted off my shoulders. Everyday has become less and less of a struggle and I take everyday as a blessing. I make sure everyday is a day worth living.
Mother’s talk to your husbands and remember why you love them. Hold On your children remember you made this beautiful creation. Life is precious so live it!!
Find your why!!!!!
The Young Farm Wife